Lent 4 (Year B)
Mothering Sunday
It is always important to say 'Thank you.' According to Meister Eckhardt, the German medieval mystic, 'Thank you' is the only prayer you ever need to say! Today is a wonderful opportunity to say 'Thank You' for and to our mothers. Let us think for a second what mothers do: mums bring us into the world, they nourish us, teach us 'right from wrong', forgive us when we make mistakes and above all love us (among a million and one other things!). Today is a great day to treat our mums!
However, traditionally Mothering Sunday is actually more about the Church. Let's look at today's Gospel reading: When Jesus was dying on the cross, he felt moved to speak to his Mother Mary and his beloved disciple John. He said, “Woman, here is your son,” and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” (John 19:26-27). When Jesus said these words, he was inaugurating a new family - that of the Church. Like a mother, the Church gives us new life (through baptism), nourishes us (through the Word of God and Holy Communion), forgives us (by absolving us of our sins) and teaches us. Above all, the Church is a conduit of Christ's love in the World.
Now, I appreciate that for some, Mother's Day is a difficult time of year: perhaps our mothers have passed away, perhaps some are less than ideal in how they parent us and in addition, some women may feel a tragic sense of loss about not being able to be a mother themselves. No matter how painful these things might be, always remember that you have a loving mother in the Church and plenty of brothers and sisters in Christ too! Amen.
Fr Vince